

A well-placed “Does that feel good?” or “Do you like it?” is hot when met by a whimper – because that’s the only sound your man can manage.

Now, you don’t want your man to feel like he’s playing 20 Questions in bed, but this tactic is both sexy and practical.

Plus, talking keeps the two of you connected just like making eye contact can mean the difference between fucking and making love. If you don’t speak up, how will he learn? Don’t be afraid to tell him you need it harder, softer or a little to the left. There’s no need for you to sit through sex that isn’t doing it for you, so a little guidance doesn’t hurt. If he’s doing a great job, it’ll be good for him to hear those things. Does it feel oh-so-good or do you need something a little more? Let him know.
